Any chat violating any legally protected status is insta-ban and you will also be reported. No exceptions. Say it and you are toast. Don't go there.
This is not a group therapy session or a place to come vent all your problems. That's what a professional therapist is for. Use those instead, they're great, and trained to help you.
No promotions of other venues or other live streams in chat. That's just rude and disrespectful.